Dearest Friends and Family,
We write to you with a date for the record books: November 10th is the day we saw GOOD BYE and GOOD RIDDANCE to my immune system. This is a day we are simultaneously looking so forward to while also eyeing with great trepidation and a bit of fear. A transplant date of November 10th is a little later than anticipated for a couple of reasons. 1) apparently there was a flood of transplants that needed to get scheduled at SCCA and I was not the first one on the priority list. Absolutely no complaint from me on this one, I’m happy to not be considered top priority in this case. 2) We want to make sure that I incur a majority of my costs post-November, after I enroll in my health insurance at work, to help mitigate unnecessary out of pocket expenses.
I will quit working in the office on October 1st, as I cannot get sick before transplant, and will work from home until October 16th. October 20th marks the first day of my massive work-up. From October 20th thorugh November 2nd, I will be having numerous consults and undergoing numerous procedures including a bone marrow draw and placement of a central line in my chest. On November 6th I start chemo as an outpatient. I’ll go in three consecutive days (Fri, Sat, Sun) and then they will give me a rest day on Monday. Tuesday I’ll be admitted to UW and will receive (probably) two rounds of total body radiation in the morning and then the cells will be dripped into me that night. By Wednesday afternoon I’ll be discharged and on my way with a brand new, albeit non-functioning as of then, immune system.
For the first 100 days post transplant my world is going to become very small. It will consist of our home, Optimus Prime (my car), a 15 mile stretch of I-90, about 2 miles of downtown Seattle, and the beautiful Seattle Cancer Care Alliance. I will be at SCCA everyday for the first week or so post transplant. The frequency of my trips there after will depend on how my body is responding to the new marrow. SCCA will actually provide me with the only real ‘public’ interactions I will have for a while. Which means, that over these next few weeks I will be compiling a list of craft projects, books, and DVDs that must be accomplished, read, or viewed! If you have any suggestions, please send them my way – I’d love to have an impossibly long list just in case! ; ) In this regard, please note that if you must send us something, which I cannot stress enough how unnecessary it is, we cannot accept flowers. Instead, please send us your favorite book, DVD, game, crossword puzzles, or whatever it is you do during your down time. Those gifts will go a long way in preserving my sanity and the flowers, unfortunately, cannot come into the house at all.
Finally, we again want to express to you how deeply thankful we are for each and everyone of you. Your support and love over the past few months and even years means more to us than we can say, and has without a doubt helped us get through this very trying time. We take great, great, comfort in knowing that we have such an amazing community of friends and family praying us through this mess. : )
In great love and appreciation,
Alyssa & Kyle









